Can your relationship be saved?

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Can your relationship be saved? To answer this question the more important questions to ask are “Have you been working on you?” “Are you in a healthy place?”, “Do you listen to your body?”, and “Are you kind to yourself?” If you answered NO to any of these questions before you can determine whether you relationship can be saved you need to work on you.

If you focus on what’s wrong with your partner or how they aren’t trying, this simply constricts the energy flow within the relationship. They won’t grow or change because you are not creating the space for them to do it safely. The focus needs to be on what makes you happy and how you can create that for yourself. Tuning into what you like and don’t like, having the awareness of your emotions as they arise, and determining whether you need to shift your attitude in any way are all important strategies to take.

Focus on what YOU can do to fulfill the needs that you have so you can been self-sufficient emotionally. What’s also important is to speak up for what you need to have more balance and joy in your life. Maybe you need help with household chores, taking care of the kids schedules or to get more alone time. Ask your partner what they need to have more joy and balance in their lives.

Heal you and see how your relationships transform.

Let’s say we have a few good partner matches on this earth throughout of lifetime. A good match means they can assist us to take ourselves to a new level of enlightenment. That doesn’t necessarily mean it’s going to be easy. A good match, like our kids, help us to see our baggage. They create discomfort for us and force us to step into our power, to realize we are worthy and deserve to be happy. Most partners are opposites in some ways and similar in others. There might be an area in your relationship that wasn’t very good from the start, yet other areas are brilliant. That rough area is a gem of an opportunity for enlightenment, to gain compassion and to enhance communication.

There are many tools you can use to work on your such as:

• Journaling

• Dream interpretation

• Meditation

• Yoga

• Improv

• Energy Healing

• and more…

  If you would like any one on one coaching on any of your relationship: work, love, family etc… I am available over zoom and can assist you with any of the above. Sending blessings your way for amazing, full-filling, transformational relationships.

  Jacquie Hermans